In my definition, honeymoon phase is the early stage of any relationship when you are so blinded by attraction, whereby in your eyes you see nothing but perfection.
You mess up your priorities for awhile and enjoy the presence of each other like there is no tomorrow. You show off to people around you, that you are so grateful to have him beside you and it is like a trophy you won at some Olympics. You know everyone’s annoyed of the fact that he can’t keep his hands or eyes off of you, but you think it’s extremely sweet. You know you don’t believe in RnB but you have been listening to RnB all week long.
You sleep so comfortably next to him and you barely hear his snore or feel his bony arms because the warmth of his breath makes your life accompanied. You don’t see the need to colour the black and white picture because in your eyes, it’s so colourful.
Flowers that overflow of which pollen’s unharmed. Your palm’s never empty and kisses that shower you with warmth and happiness. He would make everything in the world look alright. You wouldn’t even think it’s natural to rain tomorrow. Thunders are made romantic and everything bad disappears.
Waking up to the same person beside you over and over isn’t overwhelming but a breath of fresh air because you are reminded over and over again that for the rest of your life, you will never ever be alone to bare joy or grief. Grieves are twice as easy to get over and joys are twice as joyous for the rest of your life, and it is a happy thought to get your day started.
Being the girlfriend, fiancée or wife is never a fulltime job but it is a hobby. You love to see him eye you sexily while you cook, do your laundry or clean. Complaint isn’t what your words but smile; it is in return for his compliments for you being the best women ever.
We are so young that we loose our sense of maturity and enjoy every day of life like we would never be old enough to not love this much.
But in reality, it is natural to slowly realize his bony arms, or the colourless pictures, or that he’s a handful or the fact that we will grow old someday. It is the circle of relationship for any girl to get bored of unattended many duties or messing up the neatly kept house.
Nonetheless, I wish to change the well known philosophy and prove the world that the cycle of relationship could linger its honeymoon phase for a lifetime. *Fingers Crossed* ;)
