Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Old school love

Recently, a very dear friend was having a problem with the love of his life. Even though they aren't dating, they are something none of us can explain. I am the terrified yet excited with the vibe I find in them. Why don't they see it when I see it all around? Valuable is what I see in them; why blow it when you can make a fortune out of it. 

How do couples or people who cant name their relationships solve problems, I wonder? Is it OK if he or she goes silent when they actually need the partner? Is it OK if he or she completely tries to withdraw and the partner lets him or her withdrawn? I wonder, am I to cry on the shoulder of my boyfriend or silently in the corner of my room? Why a guy doesn't gets to hug the love of his life and forget about the troubles of life. Where's the beauty of sharing and being there for each other. Isn’t he or she the one who will make the world look great? Isn't he or she the one who will prove wrong of the unrighteously acted?

Why cant the movie type of resolving doesn't happen in real life? Why isn't the kiss and make up concept a real one? 

The beauty of someone wiping your tears off and making your love smile despite the wars and catastrophes are the beauty of being in love. Making a rainy day look like a sunny happy day and turning a rough road look easy if the magic of love. Why don’t two people who are madly in love with you understand this?

Well, I guess time has passed by when you no longer fight nor talk. It is the era where love is simply an attraction and not the full fledge package that turns your life from ash to gold. Days have passed, when you no longer belong into his or her life even though you love each other like Romeo and Juliet. Today, loving is merely a magnetism where you both do not want to lie down below the sky full of stars and tell each other nothing else matters. Today, relationship means you do errands for each other and that there are not emotions that could be run as errands. Today, life is yours alone and we all believe in independence but where the hell is the beauty of it.

And now I tell my dear friend and everyone who believes in space and time, "prove us all wrong". Stand up to be a man and be the man of her life. Let the woman be the concept queen. Let her forget independence and let you be her support in all scenarios.

1 comment:

  1. ...totally inspiring, as always :). And we actually sang “nothing else matters” yesterday, but it wasn’t under the same circumstances as you portrayed. Yet still “it’s” no different than before and not even hopeful :( ..But here I am sitting, wishing and waiting *emotionless*..ekamuves.

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