An impression of attraction without an effort.

Below are possible 10 moves of a guy to attract a girl of his dreams.

1. Take the big check; Pay off big checks and look impressive. Talk numbers that none of your other friends can talk about. Girls like when you take control. When you lead a relationship and ensure them that someday you can be the person taking care of them.

2. Take care of the girl’s best friend; Get the yes word and the green light from the best friend. This is often a temporary step whereby the girlfriend is totally out of the picture in time.

3. Do the undoable; Do the things you hate. Wake up early in the morning. Do shopping on lady style. And all the tiny undoables for the male species.

4. Lie to her about your forbidden sins; Look as innocent as you can. Be clean from drugs and we faithful in your past relationships.

5. Be understanding; which none of them are. Trust me, hanging out with guys and wearing half naked dresses infront of your male friends is no longer accepted when you are impressed enough. Soon you need to be reserved and to some extent I respect that.

6. Make one big compromise for the girl; Skip something important in life, just for her. So she’d see you in the big picture. The compromise is often related to something huge which may involve family or career.

7. Be great around kids. A guy may love kids, but not in a manner that he is drooling to take the responsibility of being a father.

8. Be a mama’s boy. Hardly guys are homely, but to impress a pretty girl, you don’t know how far they might go.

9. Be religious. Girls love having a wise man in their life.

10. Get along with friends and family. If a guy is so good at what he does, he is the best in impressing you friends and family.

I am not surprised that most of the guys do all of the above or even more sometimes, to impress girls. The thing I’m confused is that these fade away with the first base.

And most the whole post is not suppose to be a typical Cosmo article but is a dot down of things to help me understand why I am so impressed with you. I’m shocked that we both are so attracted to each other without any of the above and I really don’t know why and how?